Hi 3 . . . sorry about the latest convo with your H. It sure sounds like he wants to keep up the status quo - keeping all his options open. Are you comfortable with that?

I suppose you could continue to move forward with your life, and if at some point you tire of waiting for H to make up his mind, you could take action. But you are right - in order to do this, you probably really do need to detach and drop all your expectations. Is that possible?

What do you think needs to happen for H to feel motivated to figure out his sh!t?

This is hard - I'm sorry, 3. frown

BTW, 3 and upwards, you should come over to FB. The group is secret but we can find you if you have an account with your screen name with db on the end.

(((3boys))))

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14