Today we texted back and forth for awhile. I listened well to our last conversation and did not mention anything i am doing or talk about r. I am now taking the approach that we need to be just "friends" now and work on our sons and ourselves. It felt good to talk to a friend and I came away from the exchange much happier than any we have had in a long time. This is my new 180 and I think I can do this while detaching...


BD OM EA 9/2013
ICAYBDNLY 10/2013
I Move out 1/2014
Separation draft sent 5/2014
S13 S13 S9