Barry, good points, thanks. I agree that a schedule is a good idea but I've always felt that having a bit of flexibility is healthier for kids, especially mine. I do know their schedules but it seems my MIL and W want to be in the drivers seat and will only "allow" me to call when they decide it's ok. That is going to have to change and I think it will given time.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS