Thank you Spartan the 180 approach I'm taking is mainly with conversation I'm not initiating text talk or anything. I do respond politely and I don't bash kids Mom mostly because I still do love her and have never spoke bad of her. We would always call each other multiple time a day so that has stopped. I've spoken before of hoping that with her saying she is now a lesbian that it could just be another one of her lies. Also when we did speak she would often talk about when she would leave for the weekend and when she would come home an with me now knowing of the affair it's just to hard to hear so I just kind of block it all out. So the 180 is in part for me also. But hoping she will miss me and ? Her own actions.


M48 W44
S13 S11 S4
Married 14 yrs
Nov 14/13bomb dropped
Feb she filed for D 1/14
End of Feb she served me
3/24 got notice to appear at F.O.C