I did, but I dont have a lawyer due to being mad broke... And I feel I dont want to follow that path when I believe we can still talk as she propossed dont you think?
Ye,
I really don't care if you follow my advice or not. I don't know you, and I won't be offended. But I'm only here because I successfully DB'd my marriage and reconciled with my wife, and want to try to help others avoid some of the mistakes I made, and maybe learn a little faster from the things I did that worked.
I would suggest to you that when you learn to stop operating based on your FEELINGS, and instead by what WORKS, you will begin to be much more effective.
Leading with your feelings is what got both you AND your wife into this mess.
