I don't think you should have agreed to not tell anyone about the pregnancy, but I "think" I see why you had rather she tell it first. Of course, she will be giving her version.......however or whatever, but people usually try to make themselves sound better than they really are. What about your parents?
I guess I'm not too concerned about agreeing not to tell anyone. It's going to come out soon enough. I can't think of what version she could say that would make herself look better. She already doesn't have any support from her family, or my family, or any of our mutual friends.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
I hope you won't start covering up the truth.....for her. That would make things worse.
I haven't really thought about this. I mean nobody is asking me if she's pregnant or anything, so I'm not lying to anybody. I guess I'm wondering what I could do to make things worse?
Originally Posted By: sandi2
When she says she will be mad if OM doesn't snow up, is she referring to being with her at the doctor s office? That is not a good sign at all. She is clearly not detached from him, and being pregnant usually draws the woman emotionally closer to the father of the child.
Have you told her you need time to think about things? Don't call her Tuesday. She wants OM there, not you. If you contact her, then she will see it as an open door to contact you while you are trying not to be influenced from her.
Yeah this is the bad thing isn't it. She is really hoping he is going to help support the kid and that he'll be there for the doctor's visit, because he promised her. I haven't said anything as far as what I would do. I told her I would need time to think about it. But yeah I'm pretty sure she's still in love, and was just heartbroken when she originally was talking to me on Friday.
Tuesday plan is to just text her when I get to where I'm going just so she can tell the kids that I'm ok.
