Vets, or anyone who has been through this...

Is this anger common for the WAS?

Is she upset because my actions are contradicting her perception of me?

I don't understand why she would call and ask if there was something I needed to talk about. Was she was using that as an excuse to call? Was she thinking I am trying to tell her something or manipulate her by giving our nieces birthday cards?

I know not to believe most of what she says but this exchange has upset me a little, so I need to work on detachment some more.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15