How do you know this about the counselor he chose?!
You have a lot of preconceived notions about things. Interview her first. Call her or email her . If then she is not what you are looking for, you can say " I don't really think she is the best choice for our goal "
And, btw, who says she cannot vary her approach at all?
I bet she's not a one trick pony, and she's surely Not a mind reader.
All the counselors I know, WANT input from their clients about what each party involved, wants. Communicate with each potential counselor.
I think you may be reading what he wrote incorrectly. I think he has the same goal as you do. You just automatically assumed before talking to the C that she wasn't on the same track as you guys. Slow down. He was giving a suggestion, he didn't say you had to chose her.
Why don't you suggest you guys pick a few, agree on a few questions you want to ask him/her to determine the right fit?
Good ideas^^^
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