"Because it started to feel like it was only being addressed because I complained. When this happens in relationships the person having to constantly remind the other doesn't feel confident in their importance. They start to feel that they are being appeased so they will stop nagging"

Exactly why whoever I wind up with (hopefully my wife) will have to read 5LL before I can take them seriously.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014