The biggest problem and the main problem that I get from your situation its something called "communication" I might be wrong but I feel when you both talk its basically an exchange of judgements and pushing to be "right" , this is not a hard thing to change, you can actually start working on that and see if maybe thats the issue in your R with your H, what do you think about what I said?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
