Starsky, thanks for clarification. I get it now. I guess I find myself on the path similar to Angel’s. The only thing I’m trying to keep is the emotional and spiritual boundaries. But it is not hard at all, since my H is far away and only has some contact for business, plus he kind of set the boundaries himself. I will try to look for Coach and Greek posts, if I can find them.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state