Starsky, thanks for clarification. I get it now. I guess I find myself on the path similar to Angel’s. The only thing I’m trying to keep is the emotional and spiritual boundaries. But it is not hard at all, since my H is far away and only has some contact for business, plus he kind of set the boundaries himself. I will try to look for Coach and Greek posts, if I can find them.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state