Thanks Sandi. I so respect your opinion. At the event tonight my W was talking to some people and it was after 7pm ..she got a sitter till 830 ..Instead of asking her to go out for a drink before heading home i said I'm leaving to meet a friend and will be home later. She said i still need dinner. I said I'm sure they're something at home or pick something up on your way home ...if your pressed for time and want to text me i could maybe grab you something ....but I made no big deal of it and then just said see you. I think your advice was perfect ..she seemed a little annoyed that I interrupted her conversation but I didn't just want to leave without even a goodbye. I think what you and Paul said was right on ...she would not have wanted to go out with me to get a bite to eat or a drink. You say the test is coming ..what do you mean ..what do I need to be ready for? Thanks again.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14