(((U)))) It is the little things that come out of no where that hit the hardest sometimes. I have received a lot of great advice on here that your R with your H's family does not have to end even in the event of a D. If you are able to avoid talking about your H and the sitch, you can still remain a part of their lives. Again, you cant control how they will respond, but you can continue to reach out. My H's family has been my family for 15 years (almost half my life) so I struggle with this alot!!
