Wow, ok -- that explains a lot. I would say that from my view in the cheap seats, for a guy who's LL is decidedly NOT "gift-giving," you did pretty damned good by her.
She strikes me as a bit of a princess, to be honest with you, and one whom no matter HOW many items on her complaint list you might address, she's only going to come up with NEW complaint hoops for you to jump thru.