Advice after you sent the email? What about your immigration status? If she divorces you can you be deported? Ye21 it may be helpful for you to post your replies to her here prior to sending them. Once you hit the send button it's kinda late, don't you think?
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Nop, I am looking for advice of what and how should I handle the conversation once I see her in person, the email I sent her was necessary to deal strictly with business from my part...
My immigration status its out of her business, I am taking care of that matter and I don't think she has not decision over it... I am waiting for my green card from uscis and I am already a permanent resident of USA.
I can't be deported if she divorces me.

I really don't understand why she want to talk about it, besides the fact that she told me in the past to inform her when I received my green card so she can serve me the D papers. ( I feel that I am affraid she is following this path so she can divorce me and that scares me since I tough things could improve and not ending D)

If you feel a strong impulse to react use that The "S.S.T.A. techniques". It stands for Stop, Slow Down, Think and Act. When you act it is because you have rehearsed carrying out an action plan.

I spent time thinking about sending the email this whole week, and consulted with friends prior to do it, and since one of my 180s its taking care of my finances I strongly believed that I approached that in a benefitial way for me...

When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.