The new toughest part of my situation right now is not listening to her emotions and how she felt, but rather that my emotions and feelings do not matter right now.

It is unnatural to listen and not comment, even if I don't agree with her recollection of things that happened.

I am going to be rereading DR this week in the evenings to refresh myself of the concepts as my situation has changed a little with us planned to have dinner together again this week.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15