I will explain one circumstance from 1 week ago. Babysitter was sick on a Friday. She asked if I could watch the boys even though I have a mountain of work to do. So....I watched the kids AND worked my but off for 10hrs at home (I work from home). Afterwards I knew the boys were bored solid of me so I took them to the park so we could unwind. I then delivered them to her place. I got my butt ripped! For not giving them a bath and feeding them.

She then said "this is exactly why we are not together". WTF?? I told her I would never be a model father. I had deadlines and was beyond frustrated but I knew she needed to work to and she has new bills now. I don;t know.