Advice after you sent the email? What about your immigration status? If she divorces you can you be deported? Ye21 it may be helpful for you to post your replies to her here prior to sending them. Once you hit the send button it's kinda late, don't you think?
If you feel a strong impulse to react use that The "S.S.T.A. techniques". It stands for Stop, Slow Down, Think and Act. When you act it is because you have rehearsed carrying out an action plan. It is thought of well before.
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“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
