By the way, my question was posed as a general question, not specifically for myself. I just used my situation as a point of reference and understanding. There will be a few people out there who have spouses with gifts as their primary love language and may face the same dilemma.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014