How old are you guys? Just wondering. Bobby what is your goal. Both of your post seem very angry.

"Totally confused.... but I have had no contact for a week now. I am not going to end up on her door step begging".

Splain this please.

"We are either together or we are not and I doubt my new wife would approve of my hanging out with my Ex".

Why are you thinking about a new wife at this time?

Take your time and keep posting. It is the only way to get to know you. You may not like some of the questions or post but it will help in the end.

M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden