Thanks for making me a fighter...

[wishing, hoping]

I'm trying to distance myself from this situation because I know it's ridiculous and stupid. And I cannot see that the judge will be in agreement with how H is handling this.

I think H knows he has been discovered in hiding money from the courts and is bluffing his way out by threatening me and the attorney.

As far as the 12% interest and double taxable blah blah blah, my attorney said that is common practice in settlement cases with insurance claims, not divorce claims. Typically a party will say if you pay me such and such amount I will drop my case but if you don't agree and we go to court and the judge gives me a settlement then you will need to pay the interest and etc.

I don't know where H is getting these hair-brained ideas from. Apparently he and OW plan to marry ASAP? So he probably thinks I will go for the $400 per month deal and they will be married this year or next and he will only have to pay me for six months? Does he think I just fell off the turnip truck?

My attorney is drafting a response. He is taking H's new wages and figuring out a new support amount for me. Also, he is updating our marital balance spreadsheet to see how much of the credit card H will have to take on.

WH