Thanks for making me a fighter...

[wishing, hoping]

My lawyer's office contacted me and just told me H received a bonus of $6600 earlier this year. That bonus was to be put into my attorney's trust account. It never happened. H also got a raise which was not disclosed.

H filed an "offer of settlement" with the courts and declared that if we did not accept the offer within 10 days he would seek 12% interest and double taxes on any amount awarded to him. My attorney said that is ridiculous and inappropriate.

H still has me taking on the entire marital credit card, but says he will take on the entire amount of S's dentist. He made 3 stipulations about maintenance. One, I take a buyout of $8,000 in two separate payments. Two, we both forgo maintenance. Three, he pays me $400 a month for five years or until EITHER PARTY gets remarried. HA! Trying to pull one over on me. It's supposed to be until I get remarried, not H.

I told my attorney H is setting this up to go to trial. My attorney disagrees and says H is just grasping at straws and trying to force our hand and agree with his proposal. My boss said he is getting desperate.

I am just at my wits end with this garbage.

WH