Still in love and hopeful....

[tbm4evr]

Hi RG. We seem like in similar sitch. The reason for my W filing for D is mostly emotional damage from my behavior. I took it upon myself to do counseling ...it's been two years ...anger management helped me tremendously but I am codependent and didn't really get the right help until around the time my W filed for divorce. Now she throws that in my face, saying her filing is what is now changing me for the better and if we got back together it wouldn't last and just end up bringing more of the same. My advice to you would be just focus on yourself and your issues. GAL, get the help you need, with the help you will do 180s ...if the W notices and want to reconcile, she will but it is out of your control. And if not, you will still be a better person for it. Good luck. I have been married 19 years and have a daughter 9 and son 5. My D is to be final in August. I feel for you. God bless.