Artsy, I understand. I am in the same uncomfortable place. I was part of a group of "married people" Now I'm not. although, my W left me alone so much during the M that I've really been this way for a while. Its just that people "get it" now. Where as before, they didn't understand why I had the free time when I was M.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14