It's a push/pull dynamic. The more you pull away, the more he'll pursue. This is completely normal.


Originally Posted By: Upwards
Since reading 5LL I feel like I need to share what I've learnt with him but don't think now is the right time, it's a shame we hadn't both read it before we got to this stage!!


Focus on you. You don't need to tell him anything....he'll see your changes.

Originally Posted By: Upwards
I'm pushing forward with getting the house ready for sale & been looking today at buying myself a new DSLR camera, yay!


Good for you!


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13