Thanks, Paul- the main problem is my friends have families/obligations of their own... I've got a lot of free time to GAL, where they do not. Normally it wouldn't really bother me that much, but these are two events that I REALLY REALLY want to go to!!!!
I'm curious about the FB privacy thing, as well. I'm hoping some people who are on it can add some insight here...
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5