Need help saving my family - part 8

[Barrybran]

The cost thing is a valid point, Scorp. It's certainly a reason to change things up a bit. Keep in mind though that the kids would be spending eight hours in the car each time they see you. What would your kids rather? Staying in a hotel or eight hours of driving? Are there holiday homes you can rent out for a weekend in your wife's area?

When you have your kids for a few days then your kids being at your home should be a non-negotiable but if it's only a couple of days, go with what works best for your kids followed by what will keep your wife happy while she's considering your proposal. The timing and location will fall into place. You have stood up for your kids by saying you want 50/50. Let your wife respond in her own time and you'll be able to make your next move when she does.

As for the extra night, that shouldn't be an issue with your wife. Just make sure the kids get to school on time or you'll never hear the end of it :p

Also, you may not be ready for dating but why not go out with one of these women and practice your listening skills without the pressure of dating. There's nothing wrong with making new friends.