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They both have iPods so he usually uses FaceTime or iMessage but I asked him to not use that for a couple of weeks so that I've got space as he often asks the kids if I'm ok or says "hello to mummy" etc which is a bit naughty & I know it's cos he's missing me but it's not really fair.

I would never stop him having good communication with the kids & will do everything I can to support that, just not for a couple of weeks. They see him regularily so it's not like they have no communication.

I'm pretty sure he's only text thinking I'll reply cos it's about the kids - I've asked him to not call/text and only use email but he's just ignored that.