Mel, the pics were just an idea on something that would be a thoughtful way to acknowledge my W on her bday without being too personal or gushy. A way of saying I'm thinking of you, I care but not thinking of her in a romantic way. It still would be seen by her as pursuing (safe to say I think) so I likely won't do that right now.

Sorry if I missed something - what is the status of the parenting time discussions, and what is your L saying now?

My W said she needed time to consider my responses to her questions. In the mean time she wants me to go along with her schedule. My L is preparing the D papers as well as the custody documents. They will be ready to go to be served to my W if she doesn't agree to 50/50 in the next week or so.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS