It's been a great couple of weeks since my W told me at C she wants a D. Taking our son to our lake house, giving me a chance to relax and give him all my attention. I think the only reason she has not filed i because she wants full custody and knows I won't go along with that.
Living life as if she is not in it, because right now she doesn't want to be. We did talk about division of property - which she seemed fine with. I probably shouldn't have but ask asked her what her plans were about the D.
When they are in this place their brain does not work right. When I told her I would work more on the week when she has our son and have more early days when I have him she said if you could do that why didn't you do that years ago. Hard to understand their logic when they are in the fog.
When you detach does it sometimes feel that you don't care if you get back together or not? Because that's how I'm feeling right now.
Looking forward to a great week.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
