It's a tough one gogofo. I had a brief period in January where my wife's attitude towards me was a 180 and she was all over me. I stuck to the DB principles, let her initiate and she cited that she was initiating everything and it felt like we were "sweeping everything under the carpet". Unfortunately, I'm back at the start with a hostile wife so it's a reminder to make sure those changes stick and not to get sucked into the good times if they happen again.

I hope someone has some 'to do' tips for you rather than just 'not to do' tips.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014