Need help saving my family - part 8

[melissag]

I see you are trying to be the bigger person here and do something nice for your W, even though she is being a PIA, but I would still say no way on the videos/pics. Why is it the "right thing to do" to give her pics and videos? If she wants them, she can ask for them, and if she does, THEN giving them to her is the right thing to do.

I will let the vets with kids chime in on the Monday issue. On one hand, I don't think that your W gets to make decisions about the kids based on her preference. On the other hand, I think that it may not be worth it to start WWIII over the missed day of school.