Going by my W's schedule I would not have the kids with me on Monday. That is her schedule though and not something I've agreed to. My W would likely get quite upset about my D missing the day of school mainly because it is something I am doing. I don't want my D to miss school either but since it is 8 hours of driving to come back home adding a day to the weekend makes sense.
The videos and pics would be seen as pursuing I agree. I don't know that I'd have any real expectations of anything positive from my W though, I know right now that pretty much anything I do won't be taken in a good way by her but I had thought giving her something like that is the right thing to do. I also want to show my kids that despite anything my W has done or said that I still will do the right thing when it comes to her.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS