TL, he reminded me of my H at certain times, an angry man. He is probably so deep in Lala land that he doesn’t remember how he set up the insurance and he is irritated that he has to deal with it.
Good job handling the matter. Let him stew on his own.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state