Well it's probably too late, but I've gotta try

[Train]

Pleeeeease, for your own sake, heed sandi's advice.

8 years ago, my H left me. He returned home with a mistress who was 2 months pregnant (while I was 5 months pregnant). I forgave him, and he moved back in, way tooooo soon. Because of the babies being born, we were "too busy" to fix the problems that started the chain-reaction.

And guess what?

Eight years later, I'm back on the boards, dealing with another affair.

Please don't make any emotional decisions. Take. Your. Time. Seriously.