Well check this out... You want your changes to be real right? So basically YOU ARE TOO BUSY involved in your own life to answer to his text messages...you dont feel "bad" you probably have fear...fear that if you dont answer youll loose him forver, remember that now the ball is on his court side, he is the one that with actions and not words has to demostrate he wants you back... So let him show you that....if you are busy you have no time to answer to his text messages, you actually dont need to, when you see one of his text messages and start having doubts if to answer or not, grab a book or start cooking something or go for a walk and leave the phone at home... Lets see how you feel after those activities....its like when you quit smoking...first days you are craving for a cigarette so you occupy those cogarettes times with something else
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.