What a bummer DFE, sounds like he is pulling away. From an outsider perspective, to me it seems like he could use some space. (ie/Sandi's rules about no pressure, no relationship talks, etc.) for a while. It seems like he is so moody at every little thing. Has he always been like that? Is it part of his character, or is it just worse lately? Either way, it seems you should back off a bit to give him a little bit of space. Perhaps hold off on the boot camp idea, just for a bit anyhow, given how he is responding to the relationship talks.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.