Upwards - DB myself to happiness!

[Upwards]

It is all going to be fine...that much is true. But how you define "fine" will change over time.

Yes I suppose if fantasising about it being fine with H isn't the end of the world, it's keeping me positive & helping me move forwards - obviously I hope that's the way it goes but I'm sure that if it doesn't I'll be fine. I'm not afraid of being on my own & know I can manage on my own, I just don't want to!

So what are you working on for you? What changes are you trying to make? And what are you doing for GAL?

I've been working on focusing on myself (which has been difficult after so long focused on H!) and figuring out what makes me happy & what I want from life and for me & the kids for the future. My IC also asked me to think about what I would want from my H if he came to me & said he wanted to R, how could things work & what I'd need from him to be happy in the relationship.

GAL - I've been spending lots more time socialising with friends & family, I've signed up for voluntary work, looking into joining the gym, getting back into meditation, I'm in the process of getting my DSLR camera fixed so I can get back into photography (hobby). Lots more lined up too.

I've also got myself new clothes, haircut, tan, nails & lost 3 stone in weight

I feel like a new woman - my confidence is increasing every day and I'm starting to feel like ME again and I like it, watch out I'm baaaack haha!