It sounds like you had both a good and difficult encounter. I know it's difficult to see them in a different way. However, you are right. Some people are truly wounded. And we can't fix them.
Have a good remainder of the day.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer