Thanks for your feedback Labug.

I have to remind myself that I can not measure who is right and who is wrong. I am always look to quantify things like a poll broadcast on CNN.

Initatally I believe I was 90& to blame and husband 10% then I was convinced me 48% and him 52%. Then I thought that was wrong and I thought I need to keep investigating until I new for sure what percentage was me and what percentage was him. I thought if I could pin point this truth then I could resolve this problem.

Anyway I know that my scientific study is silly. I need to live in the gray.


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M 39
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D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13