Oh yes, BD, I certainly saved myself and did not want to fall back into old patterns of behavior. I truly didn't know that life could be like this. Hadn't a clue.
BF, all I can say is (like an old record, you remember those ) keep working on you and leave your H to be who he is. He will either decide to change his life or not and you might just find that you really don't want him in yours.
And that's perfectly OK.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
) keep working on you and leave your H to be who he is. He will either decide to change his life or not and you might just find that you really don't want him in yours.
