Hey Paul just catching up on your sitch. I was just musing over on my thread about how many LBS don't realize they have lost their own identity until it is thrust upon them by spouse leaving. Maybe it is the same for WAS. They just deal with it differently?? My h keeps saying he needs to get his life back. He married his first wife very young and then met me before the ink was dry on their divorce papers. Maybe that has something to do with it. I guess the WHY doesn't really matter.

BTW the hot chocolate was sweet and romantic. Some woman (w or other) will appreciate that one day.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15