Blues, thanks. I agree. The barn area was pitch black and know that W is afraid of the dark. She only had enough electric going to run the space heater she borrowed and she was very likely tucked away sleeping or close to it. Nothing good would have come from me "knocking at the door" and offering anything.

I wish I understood why my mind hasn't quite let me off the hook with this M yet. More time and practice I guess.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14