Thanks M. Iam sure all this must sound crazy. No one knows I did it. Not even W. It would sound crazy. Heck it sounds crazy to me. But it happened. When I texted her after chatting via phone about kidd issues a couple of hours earler I remarked thst I knew what the day was and how fast the 17 years had gone. I wished her peace on this day. She reply with a simple "thanks".
It occured to me this morning that W has been someone's GF, W or Mom (all by her choice) without really taking anytime in between since she wss 16. She is 49. Next month. Perhaps that's what she means all these mo ths when she says she has to "find herself" in a sense thst is nothing at all to do with me. I'm just collateral damage during the process. ...is that possible?
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14