Yes, your H has said and done some pretty heartless things. But, only you know the man you married. If this is completely out of character and some day he takes ownership of it and is truly sorry, then I believe forgiveness is completely possible.
I'm glad you're finding yourself again. I think so many of us lost ourselves in our M and had no idea. If we can come out of this on the other side, then this pain could be a blessing disguised.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
