Hey 3-You've had some tough realizations lately. But, you're handling them so well. I have so often done what Labug was saying. It's so easy to fall into victim mode. But, you are really taking the high road.

There are just no easy answers here. I wish your H would get to know you again. See you for who you've become instead of his assumptions. The hurt is almost constant and it's really tough to not have any acknowledgement of it. No sorry's or ownership. We really have to fight through this on our own.

Glad your little man is ok and, yes, he's in good hands.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014