Yes I have a lot of support from my Mum & brother, they're both brilliant & really supportive although they both believe i'll be happier without my H so gently push in that direction which can be difficult but I know they're just looking out for me - they would stand by me no matter what I decided though.
Yeah, there's a section in DR that talks about family and friends. Most people just want you to be happy again and figure D is the fastest path to get there. Their intentions are good, but it's not always what we need. Just keep that in mind when talking to them. The IC is great.
Originally Posted By: Upwards
...so I imagine NC is going to be a real wake up call to him, the reality of his decisions are hitting him full force from what I can tell. Its my best chance of showing him what life without me will be like, its tough but i'm trying to keep the end goal in sight!
I'd be careful here. Remember, the boundary is about protecting you....not about showing him what he's missing. It may be a side effect, but that's not the goal. And try not to mind read....there's no way to know what he's thinking.
