Georgia, that is a good point. It resonated with me when I read it. You are right. We do not want to keep that old R anyway. It was dysfunctional, sexless, and not a M I would want to be in again. If things work out for us, we need a new M. A new life.
I know what I need to fix on myself and I am already doing that...and it is making him uncomfortable. That makes me smile.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month