Well this just took a left turn.

Found out she's pregnant from OM. He has just broken up with her. And she wants to come back to me.

She told me that she has been wanting to work on things for the past couple of weeks with me, but figured by getting pregnant with him she had messed it all up between us. She understands that I wouldn't want her back at this point, but she wants us to get back together, because it is the right thing to do for her and for our 2 kids.

I don't what I'm going to do at this point. If there's anybody who's gone through this before please share your story. I know this site is all about stopping divorceds, but it would be very hard to be married to someone who has a kid with someone else. And she may continue to have feelings for him, and they will see each other for the kid.

I am feeling very used by her. Like I was just the fall back guy that can take care of her. I'm not sure if she really wants to be with me at this point, I think she does at least slightly, and that would have been enough to at least start piecing our relationship. But this situation might be too much for me to handle.


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