Sorry that you find yourself on here. You won't find a better group of individuals to help you try to get your M back on track. Just have faith and patience.
"She has decided that she is in Love with a man that she claims is deeper than me emotionally and understand her better than anyone has."
Is she right? Since you've been M'd for so long, it's pretty easy to "forget" dating your spouse or seeing her as a passionate woman. Did you let that fall off? Not really. He just got into the entire Israel and Jewish culture etc. Her IC said she is seduced by need. She claims he was not happy in his marriage and she was confused over hers.
"trying to give wifey everything she ever wanted (now she says it was me trying to control her)." Custom built Victorian home. Nice cars , vacation, home Gym etc.. That's a bit of an over-generalization. What type of things did you get her that you say she wanted?
wanted to bail on all this about five years ago. She told me if I sold it changed it etc, she was leaving!
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
